"I have never become so comfortable in my body. I am now in nudity shoots. I now LOVE shining and showing my body as she is."

A note from Ellie Deighton

Unleashing your most authentic self on the world without a strong foundation and structure to guide the wild inferno that is your inner flame involves wrestling with your subconscious, battling your sabotage and vulnerably baring your heart. And then there is that little matter of understanding what is your higher truth and what is that sneaky voice inside that doesn’t want you to fully choose and actualise your authentic self.
Overwhelming, right? That's the reality of not being held by a solid structure or really what I should call a structure of complete and utter chaos. 
I know for me, and our current members, without the sexy structure it was so easy to fall back into bad relationships, never setting clear boundaries of what we truly wanted. Believe me, I used to rebel from what I perceived were the constrains of structure, just accepting the negative impacts because they felt comfortable whilst never fully realising the possibilities of what living the most authentic version of myself could like. Here's what I learned: rebelling didn't work.

The chaos isn't sustainable. 

Without a solid structure, we take actions that send us round and round in circles trying to figure out why the relationship with ourselves and others can be so exhausting and not working all of a sudden. If you are like most of our clients you’ve probably thought to yourself, "If this is love, why does it feel so hard?" Without a solid structure, our inner flame is powerless. When we lack true sensuality our conditioning, wounding and self-sabotage steps in with its sneaky voice (or voices, am-i-right?!) and starts giving directions...

And if you’re like most of the presence-seeking, love-ready  people we work with, you are hungry for authentic sensuality and you have started this journey because you want to love, not only others but most importantly yourself. You are not here to spend the whole time trying to convince yourself the bare minimum is alright and love can be conditional in your world. You're not here to say that it's okay your boundaries weren't respected. It's not okay. The bare minimum is not your true level of intimacy.

You can see why so many relationships fail when we are taught that conditional is normal when it comes to love. It's not. It's time to change the blueprint and be a stand for a better way.   

I mean... you have noticed that right? How many of your friends are in toxic relationships? How many times have you heard "it's not a regular thing" or "they only do it when they are drunk..."

These conditions and patterns are not okay and they come from either being afraid to be seen as your most authentic self blended with never learning how to share your authentic self with the world AND NOT HAVING THE STRUCTURES TO SUPPORT YOU!

Well to be blunt, fuck that!

You are you, you were created to be unique. To be unashamedly you. 

And yet we all live trying to be someone else, fit in or hide. 

I get it! (I did it!) We understand, it's how the world is set up for us to follow along with and so being a part of Sensual Essence is different. It has to be. The way the world is set up in regards to love isn't working. 

When you are a part of Sensual Essence you learn how to unleash those shackles, to be you, the real you that comes out to play when you think no-one is looking. To be seen as the incredibly unique individual that you are and be surrounded by a community holding you to your most authentic self. You will vulnerably share versions of yourself you didn't know existed, explore your past and find out why you act in certain ways AND you will learn to love yourself - for real this time.  

The beauty of this is that when you follow the structures and begin to share yourself authentically, you will gravitate to and surround yourself with people that love every aspect of your true self.

This is your calling. 
This is the love you are ready for. 
This is Sensual Essence, 
And it is time for a Homecoming To Love. 

You are about to Remember Your Bliss. 

If you’re like most who have read this far, you’re starting to see the possibility of connecting to your inner flame and sharing your authentic self with the world and what it will do to help you have greater relationships and a full heart… but you’re also trying to figure out how the heck you can have a homecoming to love after so many years in the unkind wilderness.

You many be thinking..

“Won't it to be too hard to unravel myself and express my true heart?”

“I need to work on myself by myself...”

"What if I trust the voice in my heart and it goes horribly wrong?"

"Who has this even worked for?" (we have plenty of success stories and happy endings for you to see)

"You can’t share your heart openly without losing something these days!"

"There is something wrong about this, it feels like cheating - It is too easy."

And let me whisper this profound piece in your ear before I drop the mic…

HEALING REQUIRES EFFORT, 

BUT IT IS MEANT  TO BE EASY

You see, the structure is sexy. It has integrity, it's predictable and it works. And we have tested it over and over so you don't have to. All you have to do is start at the beginning.

So how do you learn how to love yourself and share the authentic version of you with the world? 

There is also a specific ORDER to each of these steps. And we set you up for success by cementing your heart and who you truly are BEFORE we dive deep into the magic of sharing that with the world (even if you are already in an intimate relationship). 

And from there you move forward powerfully into the step-by-step process that has you no longer resisting pleasure, setting clear boundaries and creating a life that nourishes your Sensual Essence. 

No more overwhelm!

No more wondering if its the right move!

No more doing it alone!

No more wondering "if it really is that easy" - it is time to find out...

 And when you look around at the most authentic people you know who are fully nourished by the pleasure in their life, fully aligned with their purpose that you currently follow and look up to...

They ALL have an epic structure and support that ALLOWS their heart to flow in a way that anchors their authentic self into the world.

THE #1 MISTAKE PEOPLE ARE MAKING

When any of us aren't supported by structure we burn out and find ourselves in relationships or experiences that are anchored in our negative beliefs, We jump from bed to bed, searching for the one, we lock ourselves away to ashamed to be seen for who we are, creating a version of ourselves to please others. It is confusing, frustrating and exhausting - for everyone involved! 

Worse than this, is when we commit to relationships or anything that isn't fully our heart. It is a slow death and decaying of the pleasure spirit and spark. We are stuck living a life that isn’t a full YES or a 10/10 life. The follow-on effect of sacrificing your joy and abandoning your heart's truth is losing more inspiration and energy through putting your time towards things you don't ACTUALLY want.

You don't know, what you don't know.

 The problem isn't that you CAN'T embody your authentic self, it is that we haven't been taught HOW. In fact, we all have SOMEONE ELSES voice in our head telling us just how IMPOSSIBLE it is to love who we truly are. Or, a voice that simply says "you can't express that!", or "no-one wants to see you like this!" 

If you don't stop living and loving for other people you will NEVER know true pleasure. We make it HARD for ourselves, because we feel like we have to do it alone, and to please others. 

If you don't implement a structure that holds you in your pleasure while all of these stories and patterns surface, you will never remember your bliss. 

Anyone who is their true authentic self has powerful structures that allow them to expand into their fullness.  And I bet you look at what they have done and what they create and you wonder why YOU can’t seem to do that. And you have been hungry for something simple and powerful to direct you in the right direction. 

Which is where we come in.

When you LEARN and IMPLEMENT structures that support your authentic expression, you only need to make your decisions ONCE, and the rest of your energy is free to take your next steps, and FINALLY bring you home to love.

"I've never felt so safe and seen and trusted to be all of me."

- Lains, Australia

Opening your sensual essence...

THE ONLY SPACE THAT actively connects you to the true vision of YOUR Sensual Essence. We all know that there is something more we want to claim for ourselves and true expression; and this is where we set powerful intentions and clear resistance so you can achieve your pleasure goals.

Bringing awareness to your resistance to pleasure...
THE ONLY SKILL THAT releases you into rewriting and rewiring your pleasure story by acknowledging the pain and disconnection that has held you back for many years. We can only expand into deeper ecstatic bliss if we are prepared to look at everything that’s holding you back along with how to anchor to your heart’s true vision of the life you’d wish to create.

Igniting your pleasure body...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT activates your entire pleasure body without even touching yourself! Learn to add another dimension to your self pleasure practice by connecting to your inner flame and the intricacies of your own sex centre.

Opening your body to receive love...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT actually soothes the body and mind when connecting to your partner so you can fully receive and be present in the bedroom (and beyond!). Learn tools to feel supported to express your needs and desires, in a way that honours everyone in the space.

Embracing your pleasure treasures...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT teaches you how to connect sacredly to your sensual body with crystal tools. Learn to unlock deeper sensation and pleasure in your body without overstimulating your nervous system or genitals.

"I'm for the first time feeling SEXY in my whole life at the age of 67!"

- Cate, Australia

Reclaiming the temple of you...

THE ONLY SPACE that allows you to use all the tools on your Sensual Essence journey to reclaim your full orgasmic potential. Remember who you are and the sacredness of your being while connecting to your body in a reverent way.

Let's talk about sex magic...

THE ONLY SKILL that allows you to combine your sensual nature and inherent desires and brings them into manifestation! Learn how to use orgasm to your advantage inside and outside the bedroom.

Rituals of devotional relating...

THE ONLY SPACE that allows you to use all the tools on your Sensual Essence journey to reclaim your full orgasmic potential. Remember who you are and the sacredness of your being while connecting to your body in a reverent way.

A remembering of your bliss...

You made it...you have remembered your bliss and now we equip you with the tools to claim what you are over and create a vision for the future.

“This is Great Ellie!

…But I’ve been burnt before.”

This is about the time where you might be saying, “Ellie, I have tried courses before - in fact I am a bit of a course addict - how do I know Sensual Essence is, you know… the one?" 

Why waiting for a “sign” is a sign to leap!

Most people waste months of their life 'waiting' for a sign to fall out of the sky, for time and money to appear so they can THEN have permission to do the things they would love to do. Sound familiar?

...but Ellie, how do I KNOW this is the one? I need proof! 

(the truth is... you only need proof when you are focused on your past and use that to prove your future. And when you are focused here, there is no sign in the world that could convince you otherwise.)

When you are connected to your heart you KNOW that when you follow what your heart truly desires, your life changes in leaps and bounds in ways that you couldn’t have ever dreamed. When you are connected to your heart there is no sign, only the yes and the leap. There is no such thing as 'not enough' time or money.

When you create the space to follow the nudge and the curiosity, the signs come to show you that choosing your heart was worth it. 

Every successful person I’ve known always starts with choosing themselves FIRST. They create their own signs. They BE it before they SEE it. They know that what they have to share with the world is bigger than their fears or doubts, and that they need to get out of the way. Because it is so much bigger than their fear of failure.

"Wait, Ellie! Are you saying that the signs come AFTER I take a leap of faith?!" 

Yes. That's EXACTLY what I'm saying. 😎  You have to leap first.

Okay,  you're wondering, "How much is my investment?"

Inside my high-level coaching program, clients pay me $36 000 to support them in their growth. As a bonus, I offered Sensual Essence, and they all agreed: SE alone was worth the investment! And here is the best part - you don’t need to pay $36 000 to get what they got!

When you enroll in Sensual Essence, you are getting the culmination of 8 years of experience authentically embodying true love and pleasure

Today these clients pay me to teach them how to keep choosing their hearts and creating a life that they love. These clients are all unashamedly themselves, expressing their true wants and passions with the world and filling their live with pleasure at every step.

And whether you are feeling skeptical that you can go big or you are like most of my students who are hungry for guidance and ready to make a big impact on themselves through a big change, then chances are, you can already see what better structure will do for you, right?

Structure has integrity, you might have heard me say that before... but when you invest in structure it doesn't just change your heart. It ripples through every aspect of your life, it changes you, it upgrades everything  and you never look back.

Look, the mistake most people make when it comes to healing themselves is they think there is a magic solution. Click one button and "hey presto"... Perfect relationships. That one magic button to paper mache over all the cracks might work for a month but let me ask you…

If your investing in something don’t you what to understand it, to learn it for yourself so it's sustainable long term, not just for a month?  Structure has integrity but sustainable structure isn't an overnight sensation. It's an intimate relationship that you form with yourself through hard work, sweat and tears and thats the key point most miss.

And it's true that investing and researching new ways to be more authentically yourself and sharing your offerings is crucial to life, but how do you even know what is ACTUALLY going wrong in the first place if there is no structure? If you don't have that intimate bond with your heart? If it was as simple as typing “why do my relationships fail?” or "why do my boundaries keep getting broken" into google and getting the answers you would have done it already! You don’t know what you don’t know.  See the issue?

Sure, you can test it out. But after you spend hours in strangers beds, or pretending to be someone your not to please other people, wouldn’t it be safer and smarter to simply learn how to do it yourself- at a fraction of the cost AND with the tools that save you years of floundering around trying to figure out WHAT to do?

Instead of falling into the black hole of Google and inevitably find yourself at 4AM watching videos of weddings and cute couples... wouldn't it be a simpler and smarter option to simply invest in a system and community that is on the journey with you for ongoing support - at a fraction of the cost? 

So that leads me to how much the investment is to get your hands on this system…

For the past three years now, if you wanted to work with me as your trainer, you would need to invest in 1:1 coaching or join one of my high-level groups for up to $36,000.

And you’re about to learn what I’ve taught them about being your most authentic self and filling your life with pleasure... without the big price tag!

Sensual Essence is a $3497 investment. At that price, it’s incredible value. Why? Because if you implemented just a FEW of my tools and rituals, you can easily save yourself the time and money of having to find solutions elsewhere! This is a one-stop shop to sustainable pleasure and yes it will take hard work and for you to commit, everything good in life takes commitment and some work. 

And if you think it doesn't you're getting poor advice. Sure when you love what you are doing (which is the whole idea of living authentically) it doesnt feel as hard but it is. The hard work is masked by the euphoria that comes with living in your heart and reaping the rewards. 

That's another thing that makes this investment worth it, honesty and accountability. You know that you have people in your corner to make you follow through, to push you to reach your dreams, to hold you when you are vulnerable and stand with you as you share your heart with the world.

Plus, you can rest easy knowing the bulk of the hardwork is done. I’ve done ALL the groundwork with these tools over the past 8 years to weed out what works and leave behind what doesn't! 

 All that's left for you is to immerse in a quality of community who are also willing to invest in their path and take their lives to the next level. That right there? Is priceless. 

OK, LET'S RECAP!

When you join Sensual Essence you get instant access to the 8 core modules, videos and practices that will allow you to transform from feeling lost and confused to feeling empowered to be your true authentic self. Over 4+ hours of video content alone plus many more take-home meditations and practices! Value ($1,000)

So, now it's time for you to make one of two choices…

The first choice is to do nothing. And as you already know, if you chose nothing… nothing changes. Everything stays exactly as it is, relationship groundhog day as it were.

BUT, if you already know that you want to embody your authentic self and unashamedly share that with the world... I mean who doesn't? Then the choice is obvious: Join us inside Sensual Essence and start your transformation to Remembering your bliss you know the way it was meant to be.

Simply scroll on, click the button below and get started with us!

But, if you’re still on the fence, wondering whether to take the leap, let me share one last piece with you. Maybe you're thinking…

“It all sounds great but I don’t have the money, energy, or time right now”

...if this is you, then you’re not ACTUALLY making the choice - you are sitting back and letting circumstances make your choice for you. Hands in the air, “I let the universe take the wheel” style. And as you know by now, that's not what leads you to true pleasure. You see, our circumstances are mostly in our heads. They’re whispers that we listen to because we aren’t willing to step up and play big. 

And the truth is, love and pleasure don’t actually give a sh*t about your circumstances. 

Pleasure always finds a way. Love always plays the big long game.
And those who take the leap into SE understand these principles.
And now, so do you. 

OK… if you are like some people reading this, you might be thinking “I really WANT to join SE! But I REALLY can’t afford it” 

And you know what, the fact that you are on this page means that you are 50% of the way there - you KNOW you need a program like SE to get you to the next level. And the fact that you’re all the way at the bottom of this page and not implementing some other strategy means you haven’t found the right one yet… right?

If this applies to you, what you’re about to read is one of the key things you will ever read about development decisions. 

Right now, you are in an internal tug-of-war between what you want, and what you think you can have. Meaning you want to join SE but you don’t think it's financially available to you right now. And what you do next will ultimately determine what happens in your life…

Consider this, the fact that you think it's not available to you right now, means you are still working from your “Victim Mindset”. You know, the mindset that you have been using to NOT being authentically you. Listening to this part of you has created your realtionships up until this point, and I know you are starting to see all the ways it's sabotaging you right now. 

The cold, hard truth is (or gold, sparkly one depending on how you want to look at it)...

Are you going to be 100% responsible for sharing your authentic self, or not?

The full definition of responsibility is to cause something to happen. And here in SE we are training you to be the ultimate version of you. This means you HAVE to be willing to be ultimately and fully responsible. 

This means everything that happens in your life comes down to you, and everything that doesn't is also completely yours to own. 

We know that you aren’t where you want to be, and now you KNOW that you have caused that. And the cool thing is, you caused that without ever REALLY trying, OR being fully trained in sharing your authentic self (like we train you in SE to do). So, can you imagine the relationships you could create with more training and being fully responsible? You now KNOW that it's going to be YOU who causes the epic success of your business. 

So, a new question…

If you are 100% responsible for your life, it's not about IF you can afford it, it's now “How do I become 100% responsible and MAKE this happen?”

If you don’t leap out of that comfort zone and into the responsible zone, you are going to keep experiencing the same things. The same circumstances, the same pains, the same arguments and broken relationships, and you won't EVER stretch yourself to creating the pleasure you know you want to have. It means you aren’t meant to be in SE, and if that's the case, we wish you luck on your creations. 

So, let me ask you again…

Are you ready to be the creator and be responsible for your pleasure? 

If you are, click the enrollment below. And if you’re not, bail on this page

"The one thing that I really learnt to do was receive and I think it’s something that I’ve struggled with for my entire life."

- Emily, Australia